We have heard it over and over about setting goals. If you don't set them up, then you will never accomplish what you want in life.
Well here is a twist to that statement - "If you set up a goal, yet you don't believe it and it creates a bad emotion (feelings) within you, you will never get what you want".
Folks it is truly about vibrations. The way you feel.
We are all unique and therefore we are driven by different things.
With that said, what works for some, doesn't mean it will work for you.
If goals create stress, frustration and cause you to tear yourself down, then why would you do it?
I know - society keeps preaching this as a "truth".
If goals work for you, do it. If not - STOP!!!
For most it is better to use "Vision".
Vision is what you see your life or situation turning out as.
Most important - you can create a vision that is believable. You will not torture yourself like you were doing with the goals. It allows you to get clearer and truly enjoy the experience (right in this moment). Most of us really practiced this during our dating years lol (for some of you, it is still happening).
It is easier to stay on track when things don't necessarily go as planned. Why?
You didn't put a dead line that if it doesn't happen by this particular time, then I am a failure or whatever conversation you create (when you don't reach a goal).
I know those of you that believe in goals will say - "that is wimpy". Set a goal and go for it.
If that is your thought process, then "You" set a goal and go for it.
Those that don't function that way, leave them alone and allow them to walk their own journey.
It ain't right. It ain't wrong. It's just my opinion
Your Uplifting Life Partner
Ron Simplified Myers