Where to Start, Where to Start!  So Much to Impart to You!

Finally you’ve got an ear.  You want to tell it all.  If only you could open a conduit from your mind to theirs.  Ha!  Think how easy parenting would be if we could do that.  Still when we do get someone to listen to us we have that urgent desire to impart as much of our wisdom as possible in as little time as possible.  Brrrrrrrrrg! Please stop rushing to tell it all.  I’m speaking as much to myself as to you.

Remember, if you are talking, you are not listening.  In your mentoring, in your sales pitch in your relationship building if you are always talking and sharing your own knowledge, you are not learning what your sponsors, referrals, customers or friends need and want.  Please, write down your thoughts.  Speak into a mic and record them.  Make a YouTube video.  You need to get it said, but you cannot, and should not try to pile it all into a telephone call or Skype meeting.

Listen and relate.  Opportunity always knocks.  If you have an opportunity, knock.

When we want to share good things, we all have a tendency to make judgments about who needs to listen.  We forget, to knock and we just barge in with our new wisdom.  If you barged in, you are not welcome.  Everyone progresses to enlightenment at their own pace.  People who don’t or won’t listen to you are not ready to listen.  If you are barging into their space and time, you are not ready to carry a light to them either.  Learn patience and listen.  Speak on topic and if it doesn’t relate to your product or service, don’t force it.  Your opening will come.  Be ready but knock first. 

How do you feel when you are collared by a person claiming to be on the first page of Google?  They have this great opportunity for you.  Don’t you wonder what the value of them being there is if they are still collaring you?  If you have made it there, your next step is to stay there, by satisfying the customers or referrals they already have; not to keep barging in on you.  You are on the first page, you are sought after already. 

As an aside, if you are on the first page of Google, be sure that you are on more than the one that shows up on your computer.  Google is personalized.  You will see more of yourself on your own computer than someone unaffiliated with you.  Please understand that.  Google yourself, you will find yourself.  If you really want to know ask you long lost cousin who you have not contacted by email or on Facebook, to Google you on their office computer.  If they find you, you are indeed highly searchable.  Keep perspective.  You will find yourself, can anyone else find you is the question.

I have so much I want to share with you.  I’ve got some ‘useful links’ of sites to get free stuff.  And I’m asking  ‘What can we do with this?’  “Is there a way to package and tie these things to a system which creates real wealth?”  There is a way and it’s about to knock.

Bessie Mathis

http://goo.gl/MNk3Y

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  • Great post Bessie, thanks for sharing with us.

  • Another Awesome post Bessie! will share for others to read!

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    Listening is a skill that most people need to develop. Everyone wants to be heard. However it is better to listen to people, this way you will know what to say when it's time to speak. Shared your post Bessie, keep up the great writing.

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