Believe In Yourself: Develop Self Esteem

8519016056_30f451f3e8_m.jpg?width=240Believe in yourself, I am sure that you have often been told this so many times . If you want to be successful in the Network Marketing world then you have to believe in yourself and develop your self esteem. Irish Jim will highlight some ways to help you believe in yourself in his article today


Believe In Yourself: You're Better Than You Think


A young man called Christopher Maloney from Liverpool recently auditioned for X-Factor UK. At the beginning of his audition he was the most nervous contestant the judges had ever seen and he repeatedly said everyone had tried to persuade him not to go on the show because they said he wasn't good enough.


He ended up wowing everyone and the judges told him " You Have To Believe In Yourself" watch his audition before we go any further

Christopher Maloney is a great example of why you really need to believe in yourself. If you don't believe in yourself there is absolutely no way you will ever be able to achieve your dreams and take your rightful position in life.


Believe In Yourself: Banish That Self Doubt


Remember the famous quotation of  Honore de Balzac “When you doubt your power, you give power to your doubt.” 


Most of you will have had that small voice inside your heads that has told you on so many occasions "  You can’t do it. You’ll never be good enough. You’re going to fail."



This voice taunts you every time you set yourself  a goal and criticizes you when life gets difficult. It fights so hard when you try to ignore its running commentary. You are very well aware that you must believe in yourself and that you shouldn't let self doubt bother you but still there are times when you simply cannot control it and you let it get to you.



When you try to remove self-doubt by forcing yourself to “think positive,” it usually doesn't work as well as you think it should. Remember Irish Jim's previous article  Develop A Positive Mindset


The more you struggle against your self-doubt, the more it fights back. Don't give up,, with self-knowledge and understanding of the problem, you can use self-doubt for your benefit and really start to believe in yourself.


Tips To Help You Believe In Yourself



No longer tell yourself, “I’ll never be good enough.” Instead, I ask yourself, ”What can I do to become better?” And then take baby steps. Self-doubt doesn't have to be as all controlling as we make it out to be. It’s all about perspective. The following tips will help you manage your self-doubt and start to believe in yourself.



To Believe In Yourself  First Identify And Ease Your Self Doubt


It is really important to be able to recognize when your self doubt is becoming critical. When you hear yourself saying, “I can’t,” or, “I don’t know,” or, “What if,” a red flag should go up.



Stop telling yourself, “I can’t do X,” instead say, “I can’t do X, yet. But I’m working on it.” or if you begin to think, “What if I fail?” you should answer, “Then I’ll try again.”




Doing this continually will really change your  negative mindset  into an opportunity for growth and will in the end result in a growing ability to believe in yourself.



To Believe In Yourself  Stop Listening To Negative People.




Negative people will always tell you that  everything is impossible,and are quick to shoot down your  ideas and dreams. If you listen to them they’ll soon put you  into a state of hopelessness. Don’t let such negative people sap your positive energy just because they've lost theirs. Stay positive and believe in yourself.




Stay positive and surround yourself with supportive and passionate people who will inspire you and bring out the best in you. You can find them among friends, family, books, or blogs and if you really want to be part of a positive and supportive group of really amazing people then you should be a member of Empower Network.


It is the support and help that you get from all your fellow members in Empower Network that will ensure that you stay positive and believe in yourself thus ensuring your total success in your online businesses.


If you don't already know Empower Network  or if you simply haven't made up your mind to join yet then go right now and take a look at Irish Jim's previous article  "What Is Empower Network: Are You All In?  and then click on the link to join


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Positive people and especially your team members when you join Empower Network will lift you up when you feel down and help you see the bright side of your darkest fears and doubts. You are now starting to really believe in yourself.



To Believe In Yourself  Frequently Recall Your Successes.


Some people find this very difficult because when you are having a bad day , you are  more likely  to remember the negatives rather than the positives



A great suggestion is to write a list. Have a small notebook or open a blank document on your computer and  write down all your successes, big or small. If you’re a bit shy about your achievements, ask someone you trust to tell you the great things they think you've done. It’s refreshing and a great confidence booster when you need to start to believe in yourself again.



To Believe In Yourself You Must Trust And Love Yourself.



Many of us are our own worst enemies but you should remember that you deserve to treat yourself better especially when you realize that, you have the rest of your life to spend with yourself. Would you mentally abuse or condemn your loved ones?  Would you let them suffer in their time of need?  If not, then why would you do it to yourself? So, be kind to yourself.




You are more capable and worthy than you give yourself credit for. So Believe In Yourself


To Believe In Yourself  You Must Try…And Try Again.


Your self doubt will never be totally banished from your life but over time and by taking positive action to control it you can reduce it to the point where it becomes insignificant


Negativity returns every time you leave your comfort zone or when you try to take massive action and do something great. Now you know however that it isn't something to be feared because you  believe in yourself and have the confidence to control all forms of negativity


Something may go wrong for sure, but if you never try, you’re losing an opportunity to improve your life so just try and try again with the firmly believe in yourself  that you will eventually succeed..


To Believe In Yourself Join The Empower Hour Weekly Webinar


An additional benefit you will have as a member of Empower Network is that you will be able to join a weekly webinar every Monday where you will be with thousands of positive minded people just like yourself and hear inspirational messages to help you stay positive also. This Empower Hour Webinar will revitalize you and you will be encouraged to try again.


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